So I am supposed to go out tonight with this guy who has been bugging me about hanging out. I’ve been avoiding him for about a year now. See the thing is, he lives in my neighborhood. The phrase “don’t shit where you sleep” or something like that comes to mind. The fact that he lives six houses down is not sexy. No bueno. Monday, when I was leaving my place, he cornered me and asked me out again. Me being in a rush and not focusing on the task at hand agreed. Now I have to cancel.
In Other News
There was an Old Man sighting last night. I don’t think he seen me
I was trying to be incognito. I know, I know. I should have just said hi, but then he’d ask me who I was with (a much younger man) and I just didn’t feel like going through the motions....so I avoided him.
The guy from the other day
I still don’t know his name has been keeping in touch. Last night after hanging with some chick friends for a birthday celebration, I met him
no name out.
Side Note: When the waitress asked to see his ID, I tried to do the "Oh, let me see", so I could peek at his name...didn't work
We went to the salsa spot (where I ran into the Old Man), then we went and had dessert. Things were better, but then again, I WAS on my 6th
or 7th vanilla vodka and lime. At the end of the night, he dropped me off
and gave me a kiss.
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Hi, interesting post. I have been wondering this issue,so thanks for sharing. I will definitely be coming back to your blog.
i had this situation happen to me a few weeks ago. i just asked him his name. haha he was shocked but oh well.
see what you do is introduce him to a friend but not really. have your friend say "hi my name is ______". He'll have to say "My name is ____" And there you go.
LOL, Tunde that's my next plan...until then, he has no name,
(IF (a BIG IF) I go out with him again)
Hey Diva, I agree with Tunde, that tactic really works. But my real question is are there any guys that are in the lead right now in terms of who you're into?
Mr. Nicholas, nope. I don't have butterflies, or random smiling thoughts about anyone imparticular.
I need to meet some new meat :)
LMAO! wayy to funny! an entire date and you still don't know his name--- i can see this happening to me!!
love it!
You are right about the guy in your neighborhood. Unless they are really, really, superstar fine, don't do it.
I can't believe you went out with a guy and you did not know his name. Let me make a suggestion, ask them something about their mother and get them to tell you a story. They will tell you a story and they will drop their name. Everybody imitates their mother calling their name.
I wonder how dude feels knowing he's spending money taking some female out that doesn't even know his damn name.
Black women never cease to amaze.
Anon, isn't that a racist statement??? I asked him when we first talked...just forgot, and when I asked him again, he took offense...Anyways, he's never called me by my name, so were even...
Also, you are assuming he spent $$$ The Zoo is free and ice cream was like $6.00 get over it...
oh, I forgot Salsa was $8.00
Regardless of the "prices". The point is that he is wasting his time courting someone that doesnt even care to know his name.
Its ridiculous.
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