Thursday, May 28, 2009

Revisiting The "O" & The Weekend

I've been revisiting the whole no-orgasm thing...


To start my weekend off tonight (remember, weekends start on Thursdays), Mr. Henry and I are hanging out. I started to think about the times I came close to getting the BIG ONE with him. For the most part, every close "O", was preceded by a fight. So that's it right!?! I should start a fight with him, so we can have wild make-up head board banging sex. I got nothing I'm mad about though... even when we had the whole "relationship" discussion last week, and he brought up us getting relationship counseling, cause I know how to push his buttons, and he pushes mine sometimes (uhhh, we aren't on that marriage trek)...it was kind of like whatever.

Like this whole on again, off again thing is getting old. We go through phases where one of is is into it more than the other, and right now, it's his phase. When he brought up the relationship counseling thing, images of balls & chains and wedding bells came to mind. Uh, isn't that for people who plan on getting married soon? Did I miss his memo on something. Me & Mr. Henry, relationship counseling???

In Other News:

Yesterday, it was good hearing from Island Prince. I think it's cute how he's trying to keep the lines of communication open (not on my $1.99 per minute International rate!). He tried to tell me about the protests that's going on in his country, re wages & France something or other, but a lot of it got lost in translation. Then we talked about the whole, "when are we going to see each other again thing".

Brian called (as expected...like clockwork). He asked me if I was mad about the whole strip club thing again (he brought it up on Monday). I told him no, but "our relationship isn't that serious, we don't talk about serious things". Then he tried to cover his tracks, and said, I never talk about guys I'm fucking (his words, not mine). He values our friendship & didn't mean it that way, blah, blah, blah. I changed the subject. We talked about his "orders", (he'll be in Louisiana, not Texas as expected) the going away shindig he's throwing and what we were going to do this weekend. Nothing concrete as I have "happy hour" plans on Friday and a work function Saturday morning. I temporarily restored his number.

This weekend I'm going to resurrect the aborted Mission. This time, I'll make sure my new buddy isn't as hot. He's got to be:
easy on the eyes (for sure)
able to hold his liquor (unlike that one Tool I met)
willing to bar, club & hop Country (passport a must)

12 comments:

True2me said...

nothing like a good "o"

good luck..dont know when I'm going to get any *sigh*

DC DIVA DATING ADVENTURES said...

Thanks...I was gonna "practice" but was too tired/lazy. I'll have Mr. H to help

What happened with the "on again, off again"???

Marrell said...

About the big "o", maybe its a mind over matter thing? Just a thought. Looking forward to hearing about the mission :)

Shawn Smith said...

So where do I sign up to be the new buddy seeing as that I have more time on my hands.

Oh, and I know my liquor limit.

DC DIVA DATING ADVENTURES said...

@ Marrell - Yeah, I kind of think that sometimes too, "like I'm blocking my O"... but even when I'm "tipsy" hasn't happened...

@ Shawn - you have a passport??? I think London is calling my name again!

Tunde said...

you deleted his number? harsh. lol.

marriage counseling??? wth. who does that?

passport? i want to go to spain before the end of the year. it might have to wait till next summer though.

DC DIVA DATING ADVENTURES said...

@ Tunde - yea... I do that sometimes... deleting is good ;)

I know, who does marriage counseling & there's no ring involved... hell he's not even my BF...

Spain...must say haven't been there yet.

I've been to: London, Belgium, France, Germany & Jamaica (4 times! What can I say, I like the beaches ;)

Tunde said...

yeah i dad lived in pamplona for a couple of years before moving to the united states. he always has good things to say about spain, so i want to see for myself.

StarrBURST! said...

I'm still waiting for the Big 'O' as well. Make-up sex is still great though. I didn't necessarily like fighting with this one dude but man oh man the making up was like so worth the arguing. LOL. As far as your next so-so buddy, Lol, I wish it was easier to meet guys in Miami though. I haven't had any good male company in I don't even know how long!

DaniB said...

You know you and tunde seem to have a lot in common.....

Chaotically Calm said...

Yes I am a fan of making up nookie. It worked wonders for my relationship (oh god Diva I said the word) with the Spaniard.

Mr. H is freaking me out with this whole counseling thing...what for???? Although being open about your feelings might lead to the big O.

Also I must agree with DaniB you and Tunde do have a lot in common.

DC DIVA DATING ADVENTURES said...

@ Tunde - I've always wanted to go to Barcelona & Madrid...

@ Starrburst - No O achieved tonight, really??? Hard to meet guys in Miami. Hmmm I'd have to think on that one a bit...

LOL @ DaniB & Chao...

Chao...the R word... it is serious!!! Good luck & have fun. Hope he lives up to his name ;)