Monday, May 10, 2010

No Show

Things were (keyword: were) pretty A-ok with Klein, until last night. We had our first issue last week but we managed to work through it...(i.e. late-ness on his part). Well last night...he fucked a good thing up, and since summer is knocking on my door, all the more reason to write him off. We went from:



  • Sex at least three-times a week
  • Spending the night...about three times a week
  • Hanging out...about three times a week
  • Conversations about him wanting me to meet his family
  • Him admitting to Facebook stalking me

To me deleting his number. Last night, he was supposed to come over. He was a no-show. No call, no text, no e-mail, no show... he fucked up royally.

I'm back.



16 comments:

Ms. Minx said...

WHAT?? NO!!
I was so rooting for him, too.

What if he was hit by a truck? Or his phone was stolen? Or something?

SOMETHING had to have happened...

Anyways, welcome back, but I wanna believe Klein'll make a comeback...

Elle Kay said...

You can't totally cut him off because he messed up one time. Is there more to it?

DC DIVA DATING ADVENTURES said...

@ Ms. Minx - I want to believe he has a good excuse, but I still haven't heard from him. I called him last night

@ Elle Kay - He was extra late last week and we had a "talk" about him calling to let me know when he's running late. (a common courtesy that I shouldn't have to remind him of)

But seriously, a no-show. I haven't talked to him since yesterday at 7:30ish. I even called him 2 hours later to see if he was still coming/to tell him never mind since he was so late.

Mista Jaycee said...

Wow! This is like some real sex in the city type ish! (LOL) But good without the Whiney chick diatribes!
He may come back and up his game! That's how I got Mrs. Jaycee! I had to UP my game. She was gooooone! (True Story)
Jaycee

voyage2atlantis said...

hmm
from your description sounds like you were letting him get cozy cozay. like everytime ya'll were together you were having sex. i mean i'm sure something happened no reason to cast him off yet. you probably rode his butt about him being late last time that he was avoiding you being mad. that's the second possibility. i mean he is young. i was hoping things were still going well for you. i'm sure it will all be okay.

DC DIVA DATING ADVENTURES said...

@ Mista Jaycee - hmmmmm

@ Voyage - your pov makes a lot of sense & I pretty much agree, but at some point age can't be an excuse for everything he does...

Also, I honestly thought long & hard about the times we hang out, yep 80% of the time, we top it off with sex, but I think that's normal for "new" "relationships" (using those very loosely...

Also, I did try to let it be known, that it's not super cozy. Saturday he sent me a text wanting to cuddle at 2am, and I ignored it.

The next day he asked me if I got it, and I told him yep, I was asleep (although I was sorta up)

Tunde said...

damn. :-(

i hope he really has a good excuse. i'm with ms. minx. i was pulling for him too.

welcome back though. oh yeah does klein know about the blog?

voyage2atlantis said...

hey hey
voyage is me must love movies. i forgot to sign out of my gmail account. still not working i think. anywho, someone else mentioned that's how new relationships start. made me think that's where my ish went wrong. i always had issues with that because i wanted to do more you know like just be able to chill indoors and not be molested. i'm sure he will come around cause you are cool. unless he wants to be young and dumb instead.

Anonymous said...

Did you really delete his number? Seems a tad impetuous without at least hearing him out, whenever that might be.

DC DIVA DATING ADVENTURES said...

@ Tunde - No. I never told him about it

@ MLM - Hey, it didn't ring a bell, until now! (the name change) - ummmm, yeah....lots of sex during the beginning is normal to me...you know, can't keep your hands off of each other, blah, blah, blah


@ Anon - He has my number, e-mail, FB info. I'm not calling him

Andrea said...

Great post. This guy sounds like a real douche. At least he didn't leave you for a small Asian boy like one of my boyfriends once did. Long story. I like your blog. Very funny.

Must Love Movies said...

lmao he will call in 3 days is that the rule. this morning i realized most of the rest of the world is working from a different playbook from me. what happened to your chatbox?

Cheekie said...

O_O is all I can muster right now...lol

Chaotically Calm said...

Hey Diva,

And here I was voting for Klein. I would like to hear what tired excuse he's going to throw your way when he gets back in touch with you...you know he's gonna get back in touch with you.

And I agree with you, everything can't be blamed on his age. What he did was flat out ignant...and I think you were all the way right for deleting. No call no show is grounds for termination any way you slice it, unless someone was rushed to the hospital.

Diva Style said...

OH LAWD...MEN!!

DC DIVA DATING ADVENTURES said...

Ummm, I forgot to tell you guys what happened....

He claimed he fell asleep - which would be ok, but you don't fall asleep for two days...

So we had a "talk" and that was supposed to be that.

But after that, the lack of "communication" had me questioning WTF I was doing

I tried to "break-it" off, but he wouldn't let me