Tuesday, February 16, 2010

V-Day = Free (insert cliche here) Day

V-day should be called "guaranteed ass day" for men. - Diva


V-day is always interesting. Last year I was in Jamaica, with a name I don't really care to mention. Brian. This year, I was here. Tired from insomnia for the last few days and work. I laid in bed most of the day, viewing mass text messages and talking to friends, when I received an out the blue call....from Mr. Henry. A month+ later he decides to call and although I deleted his number (see previous entry) I knew it was him. I answered the phone and we chatted for about 5 mins, then I thanked him for calling and threw up the deuces. I know his m.o. He calls a few days, weeks, months later to see if I'm still mad or remember why I am still mad at him.
Funny thing is or maybe not so funny thing is, the night before, I had a weird dream that he called me and tried to apologize/get back in my good graces. And tried to bone me. Hmmmmm.

So today, he calls me like nothing ever happened (again). Asking me how I was, blah blah blah. Then he asked me if I wanted to catch a movie or get drinks. I declined the movie and told him I'll think about drinks. A few hours later, he sends me naked photos he took of me (damn, he still has those)...so there's the answer. I knew what was on his brain. He just solidified it. He e-mailed me and asked me if I wanted to "come over".

Nope. Sorry....

Happy Vagina Valentine's Day...

8 comments:

Must Love Movies said...

I despise that checking in stuff. I get it on instant messenger more than anything. I try my best to delete and block people. It's just like come on just stop it. I slept all day too. Happy belated Valentine's fay diva =)
I'm so dying to know what happened with Brian. You have no idea.

DC DIVA DATING ADVENTURES said...

*Damn insomnia, last night I went to bed at at 1 and woke up at five.... v-day eve, I went to bed at 5:15ish am and woke up at 9:30ish am, sigh.*

V-day I was a bit lazy, ok REALLY lazy the majority of the day. That evening I hung out with a group of people on U Street. #good-times

Hmmmm. I don't mind the checking in from him that much. I just don't like the fact that he pretends nothing ever happened to get to the point of where I don't call him. He doesn't acknowledge the fact that we have/had a problem, and it wasn't all-good.

Tunde said...

it be like that sometimes. can you blame him for trying?

my valentine's day was pretty uneventful as well. stayed in my room and wrote all day. i would have so much rather been somewhere else.

True2me said...

hey hun,

I dont be all pressed for vday, prolly cuz im always single lol

All Women Stalker said...

Oh wow, you have the most accurate dreams.

DC DIVA DATING ADVENTURES said...

Tunde--- what??? I'm confused

True --- I really don't think about it until the day before and the day of...atleast that's what happened this year. Actually though it was pretty ok. I went to a bar with a few peeps and had a great-time... it didn't feel like Valentine's Day

All Stalker---well explain my dram about tidal waves in Atlanta last night!!! I do belive in the the universal laws somewhat though...you know, think about someone, then out-the blue they call you.

Diva Style said...

Mr. Henry is whack. Dead him like yesterday's Post, lol.

BlkBond said...

This is disheartening. We need to reconvene at the justice league headquarters.


Bond.